If your Advent calendar pockets are too small for your present, tuck a clue or numbered note inside and wrap the gift separately. These advent calendar gift ideas let you keep the calendar you love without squeezing an approximately 8–12 cm felt friend into a space that cannot comfortably hold it.
The pocket becomes the beginning of the surprise rather than the place where everything must fit. You can make it as simple as collecting a matching parcel, or add a short search that becomes part of your December routine.
1. Set up advent calendar gift ideas around numbered parcels
Start with the easiest version: a note in the calendar and a wrapped present elsewhere. Choose the days that will hold a felt friend, then label each parcel with its matching calendar number.
- Wrap each friend separately, leaving room around ears, antlers and other details.
- Write the calendar day clearly on the outside.
- Place the parcels together in a basket or on a designated shelf.
- Put a matching numbered note inside each chosen pocket.
Your note can simply say: “Find parcel 6 in the Advent basket.” There is no puzzle to solve and no need to remember a hiding place. This works especially well when several people share one calendar: add the recipient’s name to both the note and parcel.
2. Choose a felt friend for life after Advent
Think about what the recipient will enjoy doing with the gift once it is unwrapped. A keychain has a key ring with a short chain; a bag charm has a metal clip with a beaded or coloured cord; a hanging ornament has a string loop. Check the individual listing for the available option.
- Antler Mouse is a bag charm with a festive twist: a grey-brown mouse with antlers and a heart.
- Bobble Hat Snowman is a cheerful winter keychain for someone who likes a seasonal companion.
- Big Hug Santa is a hanging ornament with open arms, ready for a Christmas display.
- Bookworm Mouse is a hanging ornament holding a little brown book, a thoughtful choice for a reader.
Choose by personality as much as by Christmas theme. A reading friend can feel just as right in an Advent parcel as a festive character.
3. Turn the pocket note into a gentle clue
If the recipient enjoys a little searching, replace the parcel number with a clue to one safe, easy-to-reach spot. Keep the route short: the pleasure is finding the present, not searching the whole house before breakfast.
Try one of these notes, changing the location to suit your home:
- “Your next friend is waiting beside the books you read at bedtime.”
- “Look in the basket where your scarves rest.”
- “A little Christmas visitor is beside the tree. Find the parcel with today’s number.”
Use a familiar place and avoid clues that could lead to several rooms. For someone who does not read independently, draw a simple picture of the hiding place or read the note aloud. Keep gifts away from heat, damp places and anywhere that requires climbing.
4. Match every note to the right present
A little preparation keeps the surprise enjoyable for the person organising it, too. Make a private list with the calendar day, recipient, chosen friend and parcel location. If you change a hiding place, update the list straight away.
Number parcels even when you are using clues. That way, someone who spots another day’s gift will know to leave it wrapped. If you want the remaining presents out of sight, keep them together and put out only the current day’s parcel.
Before filling the pockets, fold one sample note and test the fit. A narrow slip may work better than a thick folded card. There is no need to force the gift itself into the calendar: the note does the job, while the wrapped friend waits comfortably elsewhere.
5. Give the discovery a small tradition
Choose one repeatable moment for opening the calendar, such as after breakfast or before the evening story. Keeping the moment familiar can make even a very simple numbered note feel special.
Once the parcel is open, let the recipient decide where their friend belongs. An ornament might join a Christmas display that day. A bag charm can be clipped onto a chosen bag, while a keychain can be set aside for the keys it will accompany.
You can also add a short invitation to the note: “Choose a place for your new friend” or “Give this visitor a name.” These little rituals need no extra present. Leave room for the recipient’s own ideas rather than planning every part of the moment.
6. Keep the rest of the calendar manageable
You do not need a separately wrapped gift behind every date. Reserve felt friends for a few chosen mornings, then fill other pockets with small invitations: choose tonight’s story, take an evening walk to look at decorations, or draw a Christmas card together.
For a shared calendar, alternate whose turn it is and make that clear on the notes. For separate calendars, use different parcel labels so each person can find the right surprise without opening someone else’s gift.
Before you finish, check that every gift-day pocket contains a note, every note points to the correct parcel, and every parcel has a readable label. The simplest arrangement is often the nicest: one tiny pocket, one clear instruction and a felt friend waiting to be found.
Questions and answers
What if an Advent calendar pocket is too small even for a folded card?
Use a narrow paper slip with just the parcel number or a short instruction. Keep any longer message with the separately wrapped gift.
Should I put the felt friend inside the pocket if it almost fits?
If the fit is tight, wrap the friend separately instead. Most are approximately 8–12 cm, and details such as ears or antlers need space too.
Do I need a treasure hunt for every gift?
No. A note directing the recipient to a matching numbered parcel is enough. Save clues for the days when you both have time to enjoy them.
Can I use this idea for a calendar shared by several people?
Yes. Put the recipient’s name and calendar day on both the pocket note and the wrapped parcel, and explain whose turn it is before the countdown begins.




Antler Mouse
Bobble Hat Snowman
Big Hug Santa
Bookworm Mouse


